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Gays and the New Public Philosophy

LONDON – With humanity’s millennia-old focus on collective survival no longer a primary concern, a few fortunate societies in the West have become preoccupied with matters of human, or individual, rights. In recent decades, we have experienced a second flowering of the individualism associated with such nineteenth-century thinkers as John Stuart Mill.

The rights of the individual were submerged by the horrors of the first half of the twentieth century. But since the 1960’s, the passions expended until then on righting collective wrongs have been increasingly channeled into securing the rights of humans as individuals. Indeed, if the West can be said to have a public philosophy nowadays, it is a philosophy of human rights.

A small but significant example of this is the United Kingdom’s recent debate in Parliament of a bill recognizing the right to same-sex marriage, which follows a decision taken in France this spring to legalize same-sex marriage. Indeed, the UK is something of a latecomer: thirteen countries already allow gay marriage, and the usually conservative current US Supreme Court recently struck down the “Defense of Marriage Act,” adopted in 1996 explicitly to ban gay marriages, and a law prohibiting gay marriage in California.

Only in 2004 were British gays allowed to form “civil partnerships” – relationships with the same legal status as marriage, but denied the title. This did not settle the matter; the passion for human rights simply moved to the next level. Denial of gay couples’ legal right to call themselves married is – has become – intolerably discriminatory. But allowing them to marry has proved a harder legislative nut to crack than allowing them civil partnerships.

The parliamentary debate that has preceded the likely passage of this legislation revealed a classic case of an institution (marriage) coming into conflict with a cause (human rights). Both opponents and supporters of the bill concede that marriage has changed in various ways over time. They also agree that a central core has remained constant. But they disagree about what that core is.

The chief argument of those opposed to the bill is that marriage has always meant a lifelong union aimed at procreation and child-rearing. This is its “normative” meaning – the best that the human race has come up with to secure its survival. As such, marriage is inescapably to a member of the opposite sex.

Against this, supporters of same-sex marriage argue that the one constant that defines the married state is a loving couple’s commitment to “share their journey.” Love and commitment are the only relevant criteria. It is simply unfair to withhold the status of marriage from those who want to make this public vow.

Many and ingenious have been the attempts to split the difference. In the House of Lords, Lord Mackay of Clashfern, a former Lord Chancellor, moved an amendment requiring the bill to distinguish between marriage (same sex) and marriage (opposite sex). The common word marriage, he argued, would remove any discrimination, but the brackets would recognize that the two states were different.

Supporters of the bill allowing same-sex marriage pooh-poohed “marriage in brackets.” With the defeat of the Clashfern amendment by 314 votes to 119, much of the bill’s original form remains intact. Churches would not be required to consecrate same-sex unions, or teachers to promote them (against their conscience); but, as far as the state is concerned, marriage would be gender-blind.

The arguments on both sides have been of high quality, especially in the House of Lords. But, as I have sat and listened to the debate, I cannot help wondering what a break it is in human history for so much intellect and feeling to be focused on such a small matter as the state’s withholding of a word, marriage, but not its substance.

On the lexicographic point, opponents of same-sex marriage are surely right. Historically, marriage has not been, as one peer described it, an “elongated envelope,” into which any expression of love and commitment can be packed. It is not so regarded in contemporary Britain; and even less so in the non-Western world, where unions of men and women are considered the norm.

But there is a glaring weakness in the arguments of the bill’s opponents: while they hint darkly at the “unintended consequences” of legalizing same-sex marriage, they cannot spell out exactly what these consequences would be. It is not obvious that “normal” marriage, procreation, or child-rearing would be threatened by this “add on.”

In fact, opponents of the bill fail to mention that traditional marriage is in a fairly advanced state of decay in Western societies. Fewer and fewer people are bothering to get married, and marriage is regarded less and less as a lifelong union. Families are having fewer and fewer children, and more and more children are born out of wedlock. So one of the “unintended consequences” of the bill might be to add welcome recruits to the ranks of the married, even if these recruits are of a historically unusual kind.

After much soul-searching, I voted for the bill, though without any acute sense that I was striking a blow for freedom. There is a clear status benefit to the minority; no obvious harm is being done to the majority; and the long-term consequences are unfathomable. In the end, it seemed a no-brainer.

Yet it left me uncomfortable. Every institution, Mill wrote in On Liberty, had to justify its keep; if it could not, it deserved to be swept away.

But what counts as justification? The very institution in which I sit, the House of Lords, has no rational justification in terms of its composition or powers, as reformers have been quick to point out. But the very longevity of an institution like marriage is some mark of its worth. At the least, prudence should give the reformer pause.

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  1. CommentedIan Hughes

    Far from being a portent of the collapse of civilisation, the extent of human rights protections for gay people (and women's rights too) are a barometer of the resilience of a society against authoritarianism. Human rights protections allow every individual to develop in a culture free from stifling prejudice, and deprive demagogues of the scapegoats that often allow them to rise to positions of influence. http://bit.ly/12BXUp8

  2. CommentedGerald Silverberg

    Britain also has a certain burden of atonement for her shabby moral and criminal history of mistreatment of homosexuals (from Oscar Wilde to Alan Turing, including Niall Ferguson's recent slander of Keynes). See my "Imperial Ingratitude: No Homosexuality Please, We're British" at http://silverberg-on-meltdown-economics.blogspot.co.at/2013/05/imperial-ingratitude-no-homosexuality.html.

    Whether legalizing gay marriage is the appropriate measure is open to debate, for some of the reasons Skidelsky's advances. But as Ferguson's slip-up amply demonstrates, homophobic sentiment is still rampant in British culture even if it has finally disappeared from the law books.

  3. CommentedMukesh Adenwala

    Our collective survival may no longer be an issue of concern anymore. The question that needs to be asked is: Whether we can survive in what I would call Ayn Rand mode of individualism, or do we need collective living in some other form also? We can freely allow several obvious sub-questions that may emanate from this question. Owing to advances in cognitive sciences, we hopefully have wherewithal to answer the question.

  4. CommentedPavlos Papageorgiou

    Marriage is an economic contract where men compensate women for the costs of reproduction that they bear disproportionately by nature. It's in decline because these costs are a smaller fraction of a modern person's wealth. As such I welcome the decline and wish marriage became rapidly unnecessary. The fact that arguments focus on labels probably indicates the issue is a distraction, i.e. democracy theatre you can do while you cannot touch monetary policy or transnational property rights.

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